To protect a person’s dignity even when you need nothing from them, and even when you disagree.
Real respect is most visible when there is no personal interest involved. The way we speak with a worker, a senior citizen, a child or someone different from us reveals respect more clearly than formal words do.
Respect does not require silence in the face of wrongdoing. We can reject an idea or behaviour clearly without insulting the person.
How do we live it?
- Do not interrupt someone who is trying to explain an important situation.
- Use the name a person prefers.
- Respect time and appointments.
- Do not publish a private image or message without permission.
- Criticise the action or idea, not a person’s dignity or identity.
A question for reflection
Does my manner remain respectful when I am angry or when I hold more power than the other person?
